8 Ways To Become The Good You Want To See In The World

For many people, the negatives in their life can appear much more obvious than the positives. We try to outdo each other with our tales of woe and traumatic childhoods. Memories of trips to the beach, hugs and family dinners are replaced with talk of how our parents damaged our childhood, how we had it tough as teenagers.

The challenge in our society is that we've come to see suffering and hardship as a badge of honour. It's as though the harder a person has struggled, the better they are because of it. This way of thinking is all wrong.

Although not everyone believes in a negative attitude, those that do are seriously damaging their chances for happiness. It is as the Law of Attraction teaches (see - law of attraction and weight loss ) - our lives are what we make them. There's no doubt that our lives are a reflection of our energies, emotions, thoughts and words. Because of this, if we decide to dwell in negativity our lives will no doubt be a reflection of this.

Our lives are what we make of them, every single day.

Be the best possible you for a better life, starting with these 8 ideas:

1.Do unto others as you would have them do unto you! Our treatment of ourselves and of others, creates the model from which others learn to treat us.

2.Be truthful. Be your own truth. Live as your true, authentic self.

3.Remember the little things. Say 'thank you', smile, hold the door open for people. It's the smallest acts of kindness that often leave the largest impact.

4.Accept others with an open mind. Learn to accept others, precisely as they are. When we judge others we are really judging our own faults and shortcomings so keep your negativity to yourself and look for the good in everyone.

5.Forgive. Forgiveness, of yourself and others, offers the ultimate path to true happiness.

6.Practice self-love. Taking good care of yourself is the kindest thing you can do for others. Love has to start with loving you.

7.Say 'thank-you'. Having an attitude of gratitude can transform your life. When you look for things to be thankful for, you begin to find increasingly more reasons to be positive (see - law of attraction affirmation ).

8.Use failure. Be unafraid of it, learn from it, and use it as the springboard to your success. Teach others to do the same.

Our lives begin and end with us; how we behave, how we think, our attitude - these are the elements that continually create and change the path our lives take.

For more information on the Law of Attraction and what it can do for your happiness, see - books on law of attraction .