Wave Goodbye To The Green Eyed Monster In These 3 Simple Steps

Are you regarded as a particularly envious person? Maybe you find yourself forever green; green with envy at your friend's new job promotion, at the man across the road's unwavering commitment to the gym or even at the seemingly lavish lifestyles of the celebs you watch on the telly?

Perhaps you try to reason with yourself that jealousy is a reasonably anticipated human reaction, an emotion outside of your control? If you believe this, then you're sorely mistaken (see - thelawofattraction.co.uk/top-10-law-of-attraction-books/ ).

Jealousy is a by-product of fear and anxiety. When we allow ourselves to be jealous, it means we've lost all sight of gratitude and of our own happiness. To be jealous, ultimately means to refuse any responsibility for our lives and our own happiness.

When we feel jealousy, we make ourselves miserable and can make hasty decisions we later on regret. Follow the 3 following steps to get rid of your green eyed monster once and for all:

1.Accept Your Situation

Be willing to accept your life and yourself, exactly as things are now. A lot of people find it all too easy to criticise and berate themselves for what they feel to be their shortcomings, failures and fears - too often magnifying the successes and strengths of those around them, resulting in the jealousy that they feel.

Nobody is perfect - it is paramount that people begin to recognise this. We only ever do the best that we can do in our circumstances. So, discover ways to feel ok with things exactly as they are. Lay down the groundwork from which you can create a better, happier life.

2.Appreciate What You Have And Who You Are

Popular Law of Attraction teachers Esther and Jerry Hicks have been known to talk about the importance of appreciation and how it should be considered 'thoughts of abundance'. Appreciation is regarded as the presence of all things positive and the absence of all things negative. By centering on your appreciation for everything that you have in your life and everything that you are (see - www.thelawofattraction.co.uk/money/ ), negative emotions such as jealousy are left redundant.

So ask yourself - what do you appreciate in your life?

3.Celebrate The Positives!

Sometimes, looking into the lives of others can seem to be easier than looking at our own. For many, taking a close look at their current life can seem a scary feat, one they would much rather ignore than tackle directly.

Nevertheless, should you take a close look at your current life, you would undoubtedly be surprised at the positives that are to be found. The truth is never nearly as scary as our imaginations - so start paying greater attention to what your life has to offer and you may be pleasantly surprised by what you find.

The more you look for and celebrate the positives in your own life, the more positive your life will end up. Turn your jealousy into a positive from which you can learn. Next time you feel jealousy creeping in make use of the above three steps and turn your attention inwards to your own strengths and dreams. Continue to do this and you'll banish jealousy from your life for good.

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